I am sure you have noticed the lack of updates here at OFG. Its not for lack of time or ideas, more like inspiration. Honestly I feel like my heart is broken and I just can’t get up that madferitness that used to run through me like water. I am not sure if everyone else is feeling like this, and the only really "theory" I can relate it to is the 7 stages of grief. Typically used for death, and I maybe being dramatic, but I think it relates. Here are the original 7 stages if you would like to read them. Below I have Oasisifed them.
Stage 1: SHOCK & DENIALAugust 28, 2009 that faithful day, nearly 15 years since Definitely Maybe debuts we learn the news. I remember reading SCYHO.com and staring blankly at the screen, not comprehending what was going on. Then denying it as I searched and searched for better news. About an hour later I came out of my "office" hysterically crying.
Stage 2: PAIN & GUILTDid you crying for 3 days? I did. Do you regret not going to that Manchester gig? This is just a miserable phase. You feel terrible, shocked and maybe still denying some of what’s happened. For me I couldn’t stop thinking about Noel’s broken red guitar.Stage 3: ANGER & BARGAININGRight now I would say I am in this phase. Very angry at Liam and Noel for not realizing what they had, and just leaving us hanging like this, while they are off on holiday. Don’t they care about all the fans they are hurting?! They I start thinking about January, maybe it will all be different, maybe just a break will do it for them? Stage 4: "DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS
We will start to look back with fondness, with love and sadness. I listen to bootlegs now from 1994 thinking, dreaming of the "way they were". When they had fire in their hearts, and just a love of rock n roll held them together.
Stage 5: THE UPWARD TURN
We will start to learn to live without Oasis being a "working band". We start to find other music that makes us some what happy for brief period.
Stage 6: RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH
Starting to really live with it all. Maybe you don’t check for news as often? Maybe your obsession wanes a bit, as you look for something else to occupy your free time and you won’t think about Oasis 10 times a day, maybe they will cross your mind once.
Stage 7: ACCEPTANCE & HOPE
We start to look at the goodness that Oasis have given us over the past 18 years and draw out the good memories. "All Things Must Pass" right? We will start to look Oasis as a whole, not just an ending.
Hopefully this helps a little, I know that I am stuck between stage 4 and 5 at the moment, so I hope fans of this blog will bare with me and know I haven’t gone!